Life in Manchester
Sorry for not updating bout myself for so long, live in Manchester is tiring for me so most of the times i m quite tired, and I didnt have any laptop or internet conection yet so you ppl wont be seeing me on9.. Well i m just waiting for my xmas sales before getting my laptop because it would be cheaper then , and my boss is getting internet connection in a week or 2 so i guess u will see me on9 more often next month or perhaps December, till then just dont forget bout me and my blog...
Ok live in Manchester are cool although tiring for me, ppl here are generally very friendly and not rasict as Manchester is a metropolitian.. When i first reached, weather was acceptable and cooling, but now is start to get freaking cold as winter approaching, outside should be around 6C now as i m typing and at night it can go till 1-3C , so is a new experience for me..
Most of the time here I m in the kitchen working, so hardly had any time to explore still so not much thing I can share with your ppl. So i will just blog about my working place for today.
I worked in Sayuri Noodle & Rice Bar in Friendship Inn, 353 Wilslow road..Well I got alot of bosses , in fact I m the only worker there so fucking hell most of thing I have to do...haha..No choice la but nvm pasal boss quite nice to me, both main boss from Penang eh so treating me alright..In fact I dont have any chance to miss Pg food as they always cook good pg food for all of us like Char koay Teow, Char Hor Fun, Bak Kut Teh, Rendang, Wantan Mee n etc and the best thing it doesnt cost me anything...
Friendship Inn is a very huge old time type of pub can seats around 300pax indoor & outdoor, and the decorations are very cosy type and you can see alot of old Manchester City photos hanging by the wall..A very good place to hang out but too bad not a popular choice among students as students prefer funkier n modern pub/club..So I miss alot of chances to see those hot students in mini skirts even though the weather in so FUCKING cold...So I wonder spring time what they going to wear...haha
I hope that everybody is doing ok and do keep me inform if there is anything special or updates in your life.. My uk number is +44791 666 4507 or 0791 666 4507 for ppl in uk...
Do realise 666 in my number ? because i m so devilish...Wah ha ha
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Lesson on Life part6
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Why are We so insignificant ?
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Lesson on Life part5
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Ways to move on from the past
In the search for love, it's all too easy to get sidetracked by bad dates, broken hearts, and bad love habits. And while bad dates and broken hearts are part of the dating journey toward happily-ever-after, bad love habits can and should be avoided at all costs.
So what's a bad love habit? Any dysfunctional, destructive, difficult belief or habit you have towards love and relationships that's keeping you from finding, attracting, and/or maintaining a healthy relationship. The following are some common bad dating beliefs:
- You choose potential partners who are incapable of meeting your emotional needs.
- You think love has to be difficult, painful, and/or hard.
- You think your potential partner is going to fix whatever you don't like about yourself or your life.
- You believe time is running out on your search for love and/or your chance to have children.
If any of the above sound familiar, don't worry. You're not a lost cause. In fact, with a little time and effort, you can turn things around! What follows are five simple and effective tips and techniques geared toward helping you break free of limiting relationship beliefs and bad dating habits. Practiced over time, you can and will kick any bad dating habit -- for good!
1. Identify the dating traps you're stuck in
Think you've got to miraculously solve all your problems before you'll be deserving of love? Convinced there are no good "ones" left? Or do you believe that your perfect partner will one day swoop in and magically save you from your life? If any or all of the above sound familiar, chances are good that you suffer from some common dating traps. In order to become a successful single, you first need to free yourself from these traps. Acknowledging the traps you're stuck in is the first step. Next, you've got to break free of these traps, as well as any other limiting or destructive beliefs that are keeping you stuck. To find out how, keep reading.
2. Assess your excess baggage
Next, it's important to get honest with yourself about what you might be lugging around with you on dates (or in life in general). What are you holding onto that no longer serves you? Rejection, disappointment, betrayal? This is from your past, not your present or future. If you've got negative or destructive beliefs or fears weighing you down, you owe it to yourself to dump that excess baggage!
3. Dump your excess baggage
In order to have a happily ever after future, you have to first believe you deserve finding a mate. Gather those painful memories, that chip on your shoulder, any residual anger from past relationship experiences, and tell them they've got to go. Thank them for the lessons you've learned and tell them that it's now time for you to stand on your own two feet. In your mind's eye, give them the heave-ho! Next, start visualizing the kind of life you want to have, complete with your dream job, perfect partner, ideal home, etc. By getting clear about what you want, you give yourself permission to attract it.
4. Stop putting off your life and/or personal happiness
So many of us put off personal happiness waiting for some external result like "I'll be happy when I lose weight, when I pay off my debts, when I get a better job." The truth is, you deserve to enjoy your fabulously imperfect life right this very minute! When you stop putting off happiness, you start attracting happy people, healthy relationships, exciting and new opportunities. Instead of postponing joy until something external happens, today's the day to start celebrating the joy in your everyday life.
5. Embrace a new dating vocabulary
Now that you're baggage light and dating-trap free, it's time to introduce a new vocabulary to your dating belief system. Every morning and night for 30 days, practice the following exercise: Say to yourself "Love/dating/my ideal relationship is..." and then fill in the blank with the appropriate words (words like healthy, whole, loving, fun, etc.). By creating a new vocabulary for yourself, you may be surprised at how your outlook on dating and relationships changes, and as a result, you'll start attracting happier and healthier potential partners. Love that!
So there you have it -- five simple dating tips and techniques to help you break free of limiting relationship beliefs and bad love habits. May you learn them, love them, live them. In doing so, you just may fall in love with your life all over again, not to mention exponentially increase your chances of future relationship success.
Good luck and happy dating!
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Lesson on Life part4
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How men changed after marriage
The Love Word:
After 6 weeks : I looo-ve you, I love you, I love you
After 6 months : Of course I love you
After 6 years : GOD, if I didn't love you , then why did I marry you ?
Back from Work:
After 6 weeks : Honey, I'm home !
After 6 months : I'm BACK
After 6 years : Have you cooked yet ?
Phone Ringing:
After 6 weeks : Baby , somebody wants you on the phone
After 6 months : Here , it's for you
After 6 years : ANSWER THE PHONE, DAM IT !!!
Cooking:
After 6 weeks : I never knew food could taste so good !
After 6 months : What are we having for dinner tonight ?
After 6 years : DUMPLING AGAIN ??
New Dress:
After 6 weeks : Wow, you look like an angel in that dress.
After 6 months : You brought a new dress again ?
After 6 years : How much did THAT cost me ?
TV:
After 6 weeks : Baby , what would you like us to watch tonight ?
After 6 months : I like this movie.
After 6 years : I'm going to watch PIRATES play, if you're not in the mood , go to bed, I can stay up by myself !
Making Love:
After 6 weeks : Baby, I want you tonight
After 6 months : Lets make another baby, my mum just called !!!
After 6 years : Please MOVE over to your side, I'm suffocating here !!!!
Well well well , how true is those situations ? anyone who have married for 6 years mind to share with me your personal experience ?
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Lesson on Life part3
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